Saturday, April 21, 2007

Wrath - the fourth deadly sin

A useful reminder, again from Paulo Coelho...

WRATH

According to the dictionary:

feminine noun, from the Latin Ira. Choler, anger, indignation, rage, desire for revenge.

For the Catholic Church:

Wrath is not only against others, but can turn back against someone who lets hate sow seeds in his heart. In this case usually he is led to suicide. We need to understand that punishment and its imposition belong to God.

In “Verba Seniorum” (The Word of the Ancients):

Two wise men who lived in the same chapel in the Sahara desert, chatted one day: “Let’s fight so that we don’t become disassociated from the human being, or we will end up not understanding properly the passions that torture him”, said one of them.

“I don’t know how to begin a fight”.

“Well, we will do the following: I am putting this brick here in the middle, and you say to me: it’s mine. I will answer: no, this brick is mine. Then we will begin arguing and we will end up fighting”.

And so they did. One said that the brick was his. The other argued, saying it was not.

“Don’t let’s waste time over this, keep this brick,” said the first. “Your idea for a fight was not very good. When we perceive that we have an immortal soul, it is impossible to fight over things”.

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Saturday, April 07, 2007

Advice to teachers...


The following is a wonderfully written piece attributed, albeit wrongfully, to Abraham Lincoln. It contains some sound advice from a father to his son's headmaster, requesting him to teach not only books, but also life. An inspirational read....


He will have to learn , I know,

That all men are not just,

All men are not true,

But teach him also ,

That for every scoundrel there is a hero,

For every selfish politician,

There is a dedicated leader……


Teach him ,that for every enemy there is a friend,

It will take time I know but teach him if you can,

That a dollar earned is of far more value than five found

Teach him to learn to lose and also to enjoy winning.


Steer him away from envy, if you can

And teach him the secret of quiet laughter


Let him learn early ,that the bullies are the easiest to lick…

Teach him if you can, the wonder of books…

But also give him quiet time, to ponder over the eternal mystery of birds in the sky,

Bees in the sun and flowers on the green hillside.


In school, teach him, it is far more honourable to fail than to cheat….


Teach him to have faith in his own ideas,

Even if everyone tells him they are wrong…..


Teach him to be gentle with gentle people

And tough with the tough…


Try to give my son the strength, not to follow the crowd when everyone is getting onto the bandwagon,

Teach him to listen to all men,

But teach him also to filter all he hears on a screen of truth,

And take only the good that comes through.


Teach him if you can, how to laugh when he is sad….

Teach him there is no shame in tears,

Teach him to scoff at cynics,

And to beware of too much sweetness….


Teach him to sell his brawn and brain to the highest bidders,

But never to put a price tag on his heart and soul.


Teach him to close his ears to a howling mob..

And to stand and fight if he thinks he is right.


Treat him gently , but do not cuddle him,

Because only the test of fire makes fine steel.


Let him have the courage to be impatient ,

Let him have the patience to be brave.


Teach him always to have sublime faith in himself,

Because then he will always have sublime faith in mankind.


This is a big order , but see what you can do,

He is such a fine little fellow , my son.


PS: Nobody seems to know the real author of the piece. Although commonly attributed to Abe Lincoln, it is not included in any of his works. Read further here.